The love of your life just left you and all you want to do right now is talk to them and see if you two can work things out like good old times. It won't be a good idea to simply approach your partner as he/she must be angry with you.
So what should you do?
So what should you do?
Patience
The best idea would be to wait for sometime. Let the anger subside, and once it happens your ex will start missing you. So it is important that you don't go to him/her just yet. You let your partner wait and realize your importance. It does not take much effort on your part, but just some patience. You just lead your normal life, spend time with your family, hang out with friends, go for a movie. Just try to keep yourself engaged so that you won't feel bad.
Positive things
Talk positive things about your ex to your common friends. Just don't keep on complaining about him/her. This will make you feel worse. Share with your friends how your ex's presence used to make you happy and how much you used to share with and understand each other. It is sad that you guys had to end that way.
Feedback
Your friends will certainly report this to your ex and this will melt away whatever anger you ax has for you. After all, your ex does love you. He/she will start feeling for you again and want to be near you. Let your ex know that you are not feeling that bad after break up. You are fine and get on with your normal life. This will make you ex a little jealous, which is alright.
Soon your common friends will start reporting back to you about your ex, how he/she feels about you and how he/she repents the break up.
Reconciliation
When you know that the feeling for reconciliation is mutual and that your ex also wants to be with you again, it is time for you to act. Contact your ex, ask him/her to meet you for something. When you both meet, express subtly your desire to make up. You will make your ex start talking to you in no time. He/she will instantly be ready to be with you again.
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