When you've been dating a guy for a while, you probably notice that getting his attention isn't as easy as it used to be. Luckily there are four simple things that you can do to enjoy his attention once again.
1. Stop texting him every waking moment.
Your boyfriend doesn't want to know your every move. He just doesn't. If a boyfriend does want to know your every move, he's probably controlling. Stop telling your boyfriend what you're eating, wearing, who you're talking to, what you saw on the way to work. You're going to drive him crazy and he's going to stop responding. When he stops responding, you're going to think he doesn't care, which he doesn't. Guys don't like to be bombarded with texts. He might intend to reply to your text when he has a free moment, but you text him four more times and overwhelm him. Lay off the texts and let him reply. The less you text him, the more he'll wonder what you're up to. He'll think of you more and be more likely to text you.
2. Be fashionably late for a date
It's not always a bad thing to be late for a date. You don't want to be consistently late or an hour late, but showing up a few minutes late, especially if you're always early, will get him to notice you. If your boyfriend is the one who is always late, arrive after him. You will definitely get his attention.
3. Send him a risqué, but not nude photo
Text your boyfriend a photo of your legs in fishnet stockings and you'll have his attention immediately. You don't have to send a nude photo to get his attention. Just a little hint of sexiness will do the trick. You can send a text with the photo that reads something as simple as "hurry home." You bet he will hurry home to you.
4. Touch him lightly
A light, non-sexual touch can be very exciting. Stroke your boyfriends arm while he plays a video game or flips channels on TV. If he's washing dishes, sneak up behind him and give him a hug. This is not only loving, but shows your appreciation as well. A light touch can be distracting in a good way. Don't forget areas such as the head, neck, and ears. They are sensitive to touch and will definitely make him feel good.
Getting a guy's attention isn't as difficult as you think it is. Sometimes you just have to disappear for a while and make him miss you. Sometimes it's all about giving him a little shock or doing something that you normally wouldn't do. And most of all have something nice to say about him everyday. Try finding good things in anything that he does. He will always know that you are there for him.
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